Jay Lenno have been spending 60 hours a week working in McDonald’s for his past 3 years. Serving patties and burgers, cleaning dishes have been his mundane routines. He was p*ssed off with his current life but is helpless. What he does during spare time are —writing, speaking, researching and learning. It’s what he loves to do. But often what we like to do and what we “choose” to do are different. Here’s what he has to say about his roller coaster journey he experienced.
So recently I had another interview with TopNews and at the end of it, the host asked me, What’s the best advice you ever got?” Before I tell you what I said, allow me to rewind to 2007 when I read on the story of the real-life Chris Gardner, the man who actor Will Smith portrayed in the movie, The Pursuit of Happyness (‘happyness’ is purposely misspelled in the title. You’ll have to read the book or watch the movie to find out why). Gardner said about the true story of how he spent nights in the bathroom of a subway station along with his 2-year-old son. In the daytime Gardner would put on his one suit, drop off his kid at daycare and take unpaid classes to become a stockbroker. You can guess how the story ends. Gardner rose to the top of his firm and became a multi-millionaire.
The secret to happiness, in life and in business. I knew the Oakland, California subway station Gardner had slept in because I passed it each day on my train trip into San Francisco. I had plenty of time to contemplate the advice he gave, words that changed the course of my career. One day, I plucked my courage and waited outside his office for 2 hours his lunch break. I managed to see him and i asked, “How did you find the strength, the spirit, to keep going?”. “Jay, here’s the secret to success: find something you love to do so much, you can’t wait for the sun to rise to do it all over again.”
Each day when I rode past the station I would think about those words. It forced me to question my choices and the daily trips into the city, which I dreaded. I wasn’t waiting for the sun to shine; I was waiting for it to go down so I could head home. I quit my job 3 days after meeting Chris, trading the stability of a salary for the instability of a start-up. Last week I was invited to BookExpo America, a prestigious book industry conference in New York, to sign copies of my sixth book. Gardner’s advice had changed my life and my business.
I spent the last $25 in my bank account to print a book i wrote, “How To Change Your Life From Zero To Hero”. The first unedited copy gave me my first profit of $1,025,362 which things started picking things from there. If not for my previous job,
The most inspiring leaders are those who don’t work at a job but pursue a calling. In doing so they inspire the rest of us to be our best selves and to match our skills with our passions. They give us confidence to pursue our dreams. Sometimes those dreams might lead an employee to find another job position in the same company or, in some cases, to leave the company altogether. And that’s okay. If an employee leaves your company and can say that your leadership inspired them to find their true calling, you will be rewarded in far more ways than you can imagine. If anything, you’re more likely to attract the people who really want to be on the bus instead of those who are daydreaming about finding another ride. I’ve also noticed that people who choose to remain with inspiring leaders admire those leaders for caring about their staff personally and professionally. Employees are more likely to stay with inspiring leaders (provided they are in the right roles) and more likely to speak highly of them. Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “Our chief want is someone who will inspire us to be what we know we could be.” True leaders satisfy our ‘chief want.’
Chris Gardner inspired me to think differently about my own career choices. When I started my business there were many nights when I couldn’t sleep because I didn’t know how we were going to pay the bills. Today I can’t sleep for a different reason—I keep looking out the window and waiting for the sun to rise to do it all over again.
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